We have confirmed it with our experience that alpha males are attractive to the ladies. If they are given the choice from their crowd of suitors, then they would definitely pick the alpha man. Things are going to their favor. It makes you want to be like them. If only we know what is their dating secret. Have you ever wondered what goes on in their minds when they are doing what they do best? Let us explore the psychology of these master pickup artists so that we will know what makes them tick.
Psychologists believed that there is a reason behind every behavior. If we are able to unlock what goes on in their minds when they excel in attracting and seducing women, who knows what we might be able to pick up? The alpha males are known to be able to turn on the attraction switches of women. If we can learn from them, then we can be able to elicit the same effect on women. Here is the alpha male mindset that we should have:
1. Know yourself. Alpha males evaluate themselves honestly. They know their strengths and weaknesses. An accurate assessment of yourself allows you to be more realistic with your expectations and goals. This will prevent a lot of frustrations. In addition to that, having an accurate evaluation of yourself allows you to know when to do things on your own or when to ask for other people’s help.
2. Know what you want and how to get it. These Casanovas are goal oriented. They know what it takes to achieve their goal and they are willing to commit in order to make their goals into a reality. As a result, they are more productive and efficient. When the people around them will notice that they know what they are doing, they will be deemed as trustworthy. In nurturing a relationship, you have to earn the trust and confidence of your acquaintance.
3. Stick to your principles. Alpha males have some beliefs that they nurture. They will stick by it for they know that it is right. In contrast, the nice guys are willing to give up their standards in order to get the promised sexual favors. Sadly, this is what most men do. This is why the alpha males will stand out from the crowd most of the time. When you have integrity, other people will be prevented from taking advantage of you. One of the reasons why nice guys are so miserable is because they overlook this fact.
4. Find your passion and nurture it. They enjoy their life by doing the things that they are passionate about. Their hobbies allow them to take their mind off things and it invigorates them. In contrast, the nice guys spend most of their time playing computer games. This is a complete waste of time. Well, I am an avid gamer myself but I don’t allow the video games and TV shows to run my life. There is more to life than that! The girls who have similar passions as you will get attracted to you. Simply because you and the ladies have something in common. As what they say, follow your bliss.
5. They have a good sense of humor. Alpha males know how to break the ice with their good sense of humor. Their funny quality causes the ladies to laugh inevitably. A good laugh could disarm a lady’s defense mechanism which allows them to attract and seduce the ladies with ease. Have you heard of the phrase, laughter is the best medicine? This is true. You better tickle your funny bone so that the ladies will be in the mood to receive you as their love doctor.
6. Don’t settle for less. Alpha males know their worth and they are not willing to settle for less. Why settle for a hag? When you can get a beauty queen! We tend to be satisfied with mediocrity when we are able to get more out of what we have. The alpha men are different. They resist the urge of mediocrity and aim for excellence instead. As a man, we have to strive in making most of what we have.
7. Respect other people. Respect comes from two Latin words. Re means again and spectare means to see. Well if you don’t like what you see with other people, then they deserve a second look. Alpha males not only know their worth. They also recognize the dignity of other people. True alpha men don’t see the need of putting down other people in order to get where they want to be. They focus more on the positive attributes of other people because they believe that people have something good in them. Somehow that goodness could be brought out.
8. Be optimistic. Alpha males see the bright side of things. They are not easily disheartened by a tragic situation. They are quite positive that they could still come up with a good solution for the problem that they are facing. When the ladies are around them, they will feel hopeful and reassured. As a result, the ladies will seek their company.
9. Take charge of the situation. The alpha males are the men with the plan. They know their way around when the times get tough. Their resourcefulness somehow allowed them to make it through. When they encounter a worst case scenario, their resiliency allows them to withstand the extreme pressure that could cause other men to fold. Their assertiveness is the mark of their caliber.
10. Continue your development. These natural pickup artists find some time to improve themselves. Their interest in learning new things ensures their bright future. For instance, they will take the time to learn how to play a guitar. This skill could be useful in serenading the ladies. Furthermore, they will also find some time to read some useful dating guide books that could help them improve in dating. Even though they are already on top of their game, they acknowledge the fact that there is still room for improvement. This will only show that the alpha males are willing to invest in themselves for a better return of investment in the future.
Have you figured out what goes on in the alpha male’s mind already? If you do, then you will see the world in a whole new perspective. Now that you know the alpha male mindset, it would be easier for you to emulate the good characteristics of an alpha man that the ladies find attractive. Consequently, you will elicit the same response from the gorgeous women when you are able to internalize the good traits of these natural pickup artists.
Having a paradigm shift is not easy. Reading a self-help book may not be enough to change your traits overnight. It may take some time before you can truly claim the desirable alpha male traits as your own. Well, this is a good start. I have done what I intended to do which is to make the alpha male mindset known to you. What you do with it is up to you. Seeing dating in a whole new light could lead to a more fulfilling seduction experience. Next time that you go on a date, see it on a whole new light. See it through the eyes of an alpha male.