So you want to have a girlfriend but for some reason there is something that is preventing you from getting what you want. These obstacles have kept you single for too long. It is about time to know about them in order for you to overcome your hindrances. Being in the arms of a woman is a pleasing experience. What will you give in order to get into a female bosom? Now that we have clarified our goal, it is about time to learn what prevents most men from getting a girlfriend. Keep a close look because some of these difficulties may apply to your condition.
Learning about the nature of your dating obstacles can help you in overcoming them. Whenever there is a problem, the solution is just around the corner. If you look hard enough, then the answer could be found. The alpha males have a clear picture of the situation. They know their target; their goals, the potential obstacles and the effective method that can help them get what they want. It is about time to operate like an alpha male.
The obstacles may vary but you can overcome them. What prevents you from getting a girlfriend? Let me mention the possible hindrances that you can encounter when you are attracting and seducing women. This may include one or more of the following:
1. Insecurities. It is a known fact that all of us have some inadequacies. These weaknesses could give us a feeling of helplessness. This could reach to a point that you will be paralyzed when you are flirting with women. This could happen if you leave your insecurities unchecked. What you can do is to recognize the fact that you and the other people are not perfect. You may choose to correct your inadequacies or to ignore them completely. I would like to encourage you to correct your flaws because this will give you a relief for your worries.
2. Untimely seduction. There are ladies who are not in the mood for attraction and seduction. If you want to be successful in dating, then you need to learn the signs of a woman’s body. Know about your target. Discover her profile, habits and mood. If you are able to read her signs correctly and act on it, then you are expected to receive a good response. This is like knowing the seasons. You don’t plant during winter, do you?
3. Lack of knowledge and skills. Do you know what you are doing when you are flirting with women? There are times when you ran out of things to say. The awkward silence makes you feel sorry about yourself. You can tell by the look of the lady’s face that she is getting uncomfortable with you. If you lack the knowledge and skills in attracting women, then it will be hard for you to get a girlfriend. What you can do to remedy the problem is to read more books about dating that can give you some insights on the female psychology. Furthermore, it can help you understand the social dynamics that are at play when you are flirting with women.
4. Lack of social connections. Do you have friends who can help you find the girl of your dreams? If your answer is yes, then I congratulate you for having a good support system. If your answer is no, then you may need some help. You see, having some friends around you could give you an impression that you are a socially competent person that the ladies can bring home. Your perceived value will increase in the eyes of the girls. This is what you call social proof. Use it to your advantage.
5. Bad body odor. Do you repel the ladies with that unwanted smell? I am encouraging you to be comfortable with the ladies but not that comfortable. A simple bath could solve that problem. Having a good hygiene and grooming practices could make you look more presentable and attractive to the women. Make sure that the ladies will see your best version. This will make attraction and seduction much easier.
6. Cock blockers. There are people who want to prevent you from reaching your dating goal. These types of people are commonly known as the cock blockers. It could be frustrating if you don’t know how to handle them. Being cock blocked is not a fun experience at all. That is why it is important to learn how to handle them. Some measures in handling a cock block is by pointing out the rudeness of the adversary. You may also choose to ignore them. It’s your choice.
7. Bad perception about women. Do you have any bad experience with women? There are men who have developed a deep hatred towards women. They hate women for some ridiculous reasons. Some of it is justifiable but that is not the point. You have to acknowledge the fact that not all women are the same. We have to judge women according to their personal merit. Not by our preconceived notion of what a woman is. Let us learn to appreciate women from her outwardly beauty to her pleasing personality. When we do, developing a romantic relationship with a woman will be easier.
8. Desperation. Being too clingy is not attractive at all. This is the reason why women avoid needy guys like a plague. One common mistake that most guys make in dating is to expect the girl to give value to their lives. This should not be the case. It is the other way around. You need to have a life of your own. This means that you have your own passion and preference. You give value to the lady’s life. Excite them with what you can deliver on the table.
9. Being boring. If you have not done anything interesting in your life, then you are bound to be boring. This will make you look uninteresting, lifeless and dull. You have to give off the lively vibe in order to excite the senses of the girl that you like. You can do this by pursuing your passion and by meeting new people in parties. This may seem awkward at first but you will get used to it as you go along. Stop being boring. Be enthusiastic and stay positive.
10. Approach anxiety. Men are expected to approach women first. It is a rare occurrence that a woman will make a first move in dating. If you are afraid to flirt and connect with women in a deeper emotional level, then you are in danger of being alone for life. Take your calculated risk in attracting and seducing women. So that you can successfully pick the women up. Your chance of getting a girlfriend is reduced to zero if you don’t approach women. If you don’t venture into the exciting world of dating, then nothing will be gained. Don’t let the fear of rejection or unrealistic expectations paralyze you. Make your move towards your happiness.
This is the list of the possible obstacles that you can encounter when flirting with a woman. Knowing about your hindrances in dating can help you in overcoming them. Would it be easy to pick up women when you no longer have any obstacles?
Your difficulties that you have encountered in dating can be compared to a wall. It blocks your path towards your goal. Knowing the nature of the wall and your capabilities can help you to come up with the solutions that could help you in getting what you want. Make your dating experience more enjoyable as it should be. Bring down the wall that is preventing you from getting into a woman’s bosom.